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How to Give the Best Hand Job

Once in a while a guy just needs to relax, be pampered, and get off while give his own hands a rest. Self-pleasuring is always fun, but having a different set of hands on your cock is always more stimulating than touching yourself, and your man is sure to savor the extra attention. Giving a good hand job is an art, and you'll learn your own tricks and techniques with practice, but here are some tips to get you started stroking.

Get Him Greasy

The first thing to consider before giving a hand job is the type of lubrication you'll be using. Will it be petroleum-based or water-based, or do you just want to use saliva? All three have their good points and provide slightly different sensations. One thing to remember is that men in general are not turned on by fruity or floral scented lubes or lotions. These things are designed to please women and are tolerated by men who want their women to be happy. Men are more aroused by natural, earthy scents.

Petroleum based lube, like Vaseline, provides a smooth, silky texture good for long slow stroking. Its thick, creamy consistency works as an insulator that locks in heat. The more you stroke, the warmer it gets. This can be especially good on cold winter nights.

Water-based lubes like KY Jelly and Astroglide are slick and designed to simulate the body's natural lubrication (also known as pre-cum). These feel great and are the most commonly used as they adapt well to fast or slow stroking. Most hand jobs start slow and speed up as they go along. The only problem with water-based lubes is that they can dry out quickly. It's always best to start out with a generous amount and add more when needed. This of course will all depend on how long it takes for the guy to blow his load.

Perhaps it's just the nature of the beast, but a lot of us are turned on by the warm slick feeling of spit. Maybe we enjoy the intimacy of our partner using their own fluids as lube. Or maybe we're just crude. But if you're the type of person who is good at working up a mouth full of saliva, this can be the sexiest way to go.

Lay Him Back

When you're ready to begin, have the guy lay back and relax. Since you will be doing all of the work, he can put his hands up behind his head, close his eyes, and just enjoy the sensations. Position yourself between his legs so that you can comfortably reach his cock and balls, but not so close that you are pressed up against him. You want to give yourself enough room to work.

Place a generous amount of lube in one hand. Using the other hand, hold his dick out so that it is pointing straight up at the ceiling. Bring the hand full of lube down on the head of his cock and slowly draw it down the length of his shaft. As you do this, use the other hand to massage excess lube onto his balls. Remember that giving a good hand job really requires the use of both hands and plenty of lube.

As your hand reaches the base of his shaft, reverse the motion and draw it slowly back up. When you reach the top, tighten your grip around the head and give it a little squeeze before starting your hand back down. Continue to repeat this motion for several strokes while also gently pulling and rubbing his balls with the other hand. Once you begin, try to never let your hand come completely off his dick. Every time you break your rhythm, you also break the mood and set back his climax.

Hand Over Hand Stroking

Continue this slow, even stroking until he begins softly moaning or making comments like, "Mmmm. That feels good." Then you'll know it's time to move on to phase two and heat things up.

On the downward stroke, as your hand reaches the base of his shaft, start your other hand at the top. As the second hand goes down, remove the first and start it back at the top. Continue this hand over hand downstroke five or ten times then reverse it pulling your hands from bottom to top five or ten times. Repeat this procedure back and forth until his balls pull up tightly to his body and his breathing becomes heavy.

Finish Him Off

Now it's time to return to the single-hand, up-and-down stroking you started with. This time use a firmer grip and speed your stroke up to a rapid jacking motion. Gently but firmly, work the fingers of your other hand around his scrotum and pull his balls back down away from his body. By this point his body will begin to buck uncontrollably and streams of semen will shoot in the air.

Once he stops shaking and catches his breath, he will definitely thank you for a job well done.

Tips
  • Use plenty of lube, and keep pouring it on as the hand job progresses. Don't forget to use his pre-cum as extra lubrication.
  • Massage his balls with one hand as you stroke his dick with the other.
  • Keep a steady, even rhythm and accelerate as he becomes more excited.
  • Keep at least one hand on his cock, stroking, at all times.
  • Squeeze gently around the head of his cock and the base of his penis for extra stimulation.
  • Use a firm grip and long, full strokes, unless he specifically prefers a lighter touch.
  • When he gets close to climax, tug gently on his balls.
  • If you're adventurous, slip a lubed finger up his ass and nudge his prostate.

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