Five Fellatio Tips
Watch the teeth!
The biggest mistake that novice fellatrixes make is scraping the penis with
their teeth. Though some men may like this mix of pain and pleasure, most will
not. Fact is, it's difficult to relax and enjoy the sensations if you're
always worrying about your dick being bitten off during a
Tucking your teeth under your lips
is one way to make sure you avoid this gotcha. Otherwise, just make sure to
open wide and be careful. Your teeth and his skin just weren't meant to be
Act like you like it
It may seem simple, but if you act like you enjoy giving head, it will
increase his pleasure greatly. Nothing's worse that getting a blow job from a
reluctant or unwilling partner. Of course, the best way to do this is to
swallow at the end, but even if you can't bring yourself to do that, a little
enthusiasm will go a long way.
Some ways to show you like it
include: initiating oral sex, without him asking for it or expecting
reciprocation; making noises during the act (try humming....there's a
reason they call it a "hummer"); and playing with yourself as
things get hot.
A penis isn't a popsicle. Licking at first (especially behind the head) can be
tantalizing and exciting, but when it's time to get down to business, take him
firmly in your mouth and bob your head up and down.
Use your hands
Your hands are free, so use them! Complement the sucking up top with a hand
job lower down the shaft, lubed up with your saliva of course. Gently play
with his balls. And, if you're an adventuresome couple, even try putting a
finger or two up his ass. However, be careful not to put them anywhere near
the penis after that. A pair of latex gloves and water-based lube will help
Your hands are also a good
way to speed up his coming if you're not looking for a marathon session.
A hand job/blow job combo should result in a quick, intense
Making it safe
There is risk in fellatio: you can easily pass diseases like herpes and even
AIDS can be transmitted, especially if he ejaculates in your mouth. If you
choose to play it safe with a condom, be sure to get one that is
lubricant-free. Then, place a generous amount of water-based lube inside
the condom. This will increase his pleasure greatly.